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[ SECRET POST #2479 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2479 ⌋

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Not because you disagree with me but because of the thing you said. Sorry. I shouldn't have said anything. I'm sorry.

And now you're acting like a victim because I defended myself. Geez.

No. I'm just sorry. This is my default reaction to messing up. I messed up, okay?

Arg. That came out angrier than I meant it. Sorry.

But seriously don't throw "gaslighting" around like that. It's a real thing but we're diluting it so much it's getting meaningless.

That is just what it made me feel like. Sorry. It was wrong. I was wrong. I'm sorry.

Okay. Dude. Stop.

All is forgiven and all that.

Edited 2013-10-16 23:57 (UTC)

I don't know if I should respond to this comment or not but I guess I am going to.

I'M TRYING TO SAY IT'S OKAY AND YOU SHOULD NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR POSTING I WAS JUST ANGRY AND NOW I AM NOT

I should when I said stupid stuff.

WE ALL LIKE YOU. YOU ARE ONE OF MY FAVORITES. STOP THIS.

HERE IS A GIF OF A PUPPY

Edited 2013-10-17 00:02 (UTC)

I took a break and I came back and realized how crappy and manipulative my comments came across, probably because they were. You are absolutely right. I was making myself look like a victim. I hope that is not what I am doing now. But I rewrote this comment a few times and I could not find a better way to say it.

It's all good. (continuing the gif)

You have nothing to be sorry for and I don't think you messed up, for what a random anons opinion counts for. And I don't think you're "acting like a victim" or anything.

I did though. I said the wrong thing. I used a term that was not the right term for the situation and I should have known better. And I probably do look like I'm inviting pity with all the apologizing and crap. It's just hard for me to turn it off.

It doesn't look like you're inviting pity. It looks like you're either too immature and needy to know better or are being manipulative. Apologizing is one thing but apologizing while beating yourself over the head kind of forces whoever you're apologizing to to apologize to you and try to reassure you or look like an ass.

Manipulative is the one that I meant. Trying to manipulate people's emotions and make them take pity on me. It didn't come across clearly enough.

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