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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-19 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2482 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2482 ⌋

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Re: I'm really curious about something

(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
Outside of any emotional stuff, STD risks are a big reason.

A lot of people have unprotected/less protected sex with a long term partner because they know that if both of them came in without STDs and aren't having sex with anyone else (or anyone else that they haven't vetted) then there isn't much likelihood of any STD being passed between them. If one of them is cheating, then the other person is suddenly being put at a risk they have no way of knowing about and dealing with. If you don't know they are having sex, how are you supposed to know if they are having safe sex?

Re: I'm really curious about something

(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 03:40 am (UTC)(link)
Not just STDs. In het relationships at least, there's also the possibility of conceiving extra-pair children. There's a situation in my best friend's extended family where a wife found out her husband had been keeping a whole other family on the side that she had no idea even existed. He had like four kids with her and three kids with the other woman. It was a huge clusterfuck all around. Everyone was traumatized (except for him, he refused to acknowledge he'd even done anything wrong, the creep) but especially the children. Just a total mess every which way.

Re: I'm really curious about something

(Anonymous) 2013-10-21 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Holy shit. That sounds horrifying.