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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-21 07:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #2484 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2484 ⌋

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Re: transgender question

(Anonymous) 2013-10-22 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
SA

Here's what I think you should do: when you enter a new fandom space, introduce yourself as a different gender. Just don't identify yourself as trans or genderqueer, because trust me, that's a terrible idea in many ways! Just pretend to be a cis person of the opposite gender. Don't change anything else about yourself, just the pronouns. This way you can see which identity feels more comfortable to you.

Re: transgender question

(Anonymous) 2013-10-22 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
I think this is my problem - it has nothing to do with identity and solely to do with my body. I don't want to change my identity, I just want to change my body.

Re: transgender question

(Anonymous) 2013-10-22 07:56 am (UTC)(link)
In that case all I can do is keep my fingers crossed for you, because getting hormonal treatment without identifying as non-cis is extremely hard in most countries. People just aren't used to thinking outside of the box. Even if you're comfortable with your identity, you might eventually be forced to choose between the body you desire and the idenity you like.