[ SECRET POST #2487 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2487 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Vincent D'Onofrio in "Adventures in Babysitting"]


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03.
[Legend of Korra]


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04.
[The Little Mermaid]


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[Twin Peaks]


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06.
[Moby Dick]


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[American Horror Story]


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[Ian McKellan and Patrick Stewart]


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09.
[Supernatural]


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10.
[Yogscast]


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[Welcome to Night Vale]


















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Comments

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

DA
Asexuality as absolutely no desire for sex or romance makes sense to me. Asexuals masturbating makes sense to me. Asexuals having crushes and having no strings attached sex and basically doing everything everyone else does but still calling themselves asexual do not make sense to me. Unfortunately they're the majority I've encountered and have really tainted my perception of asexuals as a whole.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

I can definitely understand asexuality - no sexual urges, right? An asexual masturbating? Okay, it's a biological urge. Fantasizing about sex and/or reading porn and masturbating? Kind of a grey area, seems suspect but we could say sex with other people is different than self-sex and fantasies. Actually being sexually attracted to people and sometimes having sex? Not really asexual. I wonder if a better term would be "I'm not very sexual"?

I don't know, I have all the faith in the world that asexuality is a thing, but it seems like on the Internet asexual is a very go-to label to sound like a minority.

On the other hand, I'm a big believer that labels aren't always going to fit 100% - if a woman is a lesbian but maybe 1% of the time is interested in men and has had sex with men, she can still call herself a lesbian. I guess asexuality could be similar?

Re: DA

[diet_poison]

re: your last paragraph: I kind of thought that was self-evident, but many here appear not to agree...

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

then again, asexuality really by definition is no sexuality. if you on rare occasion have sex and enjoy it more or less, you might just be not very sexual. at that point ID'ing as asexual seems to diminish the actual meaning, especially if you masturbate and fantasize a lot.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

And lesbianism by definition is an exclusive attraction to women if you're a woman, so I don't see why diet_poison's point doesn't still stand. Also, now you're saying that people can't be asexual if they masturbate too much? Uh yeah, you just keep making up your own definitions of asexuals there.

Re: DA

[chardmonster]

I wonder if a better term would be "I'm not very sexual"?

That's called semisexuality now. I just coined the term. Respect it.

Re: DA

[chardmonster]

Huh. It actually shows up in an ace forum thread from 2003. http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/1629-semisexuality/

This is actually a good idea.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

lol

It makes sense to me. but I resent these (blahblah)sexual labels because they seem to want to put themselves in the same group as gay/bi people. and they are not. and who but Internet people would care enough to make their low sex drive their ~identity~?

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

This. I just found an 'asexual awareness week' fic where the 'asexual' character in question was a huge playboy who had no-strings-attached sex all the time. Lolwut.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know if we're talking about the same fic, but did you read it?

Because I came across one about the same type of character today and then I read the fic and it turned out that in the end he didn't have sex, he was just saying he had sex with lots of people?

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

So you're saying that you deliberately allow these assholes to color your perceptions of an entire group? Get out, you bigoted fuck.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

I non-romantically love you too anon.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Haha, bigoted against asexuals though? lol