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⌈ Secret Post #2487 ⌋

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[Vincent D'Onofrio in "Adventures in Babysitting"]

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[Legend of Korra]

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[The Little Mermaid]

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[Twin Peaks]

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[Moby Dick]

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[American Horror Story]

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[Ian McKellan and Patrick Stewart]

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[Supernatural]

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[Yogscast]

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[Welcome to Night Vale]

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Then if a closet gay guy has no desire to be in a sexual relationship with another guy because they are severely not comfortable with it, is he not actually gay? For that matter, I could be very sexual but not attracted to anyone I meet - maybe I'm just attracted to celebrities, fictional characters, whatever, and real people don't hold up. Am I asexual?

Seems to me like "asexual" does have a clear meaning - lack of sexual feelings, or extremely limited sexual feelings. I get masturbating because it can be a biological urge, but if you're imagining yourself getting fucked? I know fantasy isn't reality, but fantasizing about yourself having sex is an expression of sexuality. Still, if someone who didn't want to have sex with people wanted to call themselves asexual, it's fine, but the criteria seems very inconsistent to what we'd use for homosexuality.

This may not make sense, because it doesn't feel like it should, but bear with me. I've had fantasies that involve sex with characters I'm romantically attracted to, but not sexually attracted. The idea of being sexually attracted to them is just part of the fantasy. Is this making any sense? :\

So you... fantasize about not being asexual?

Sort of. More like I fantasize about being in a relationship with them, so I would be emotionally close enough to them to trigger sexual attraction. And then we would do the do. I did say it wouldn't make much sense.

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