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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-26 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2489 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2489 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe I'm reading the secret completely wrong then? Because I think there are miles, like you said, between "sometimes I wish I could show my mother this" and "I obsess with my relationship with my mother."
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, except "get over it you big baby!" isn't empowering at all and it's making me feel like shit for sometimes wishing the same and I'm not even the OP. I'm out of this thread. I'm sorry.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
if the OP is making enough effort to examine every single mother character with "boy i wish they were the RIGHT kind of awful so i could make my mother watch that show/movie and maybe she'll finally get it"... that sounds obsessed enough to be a problem, even if it doesn't take up a huge amount of time the underlying reason behind it is still an issue.

now let's say the OP saw a movie. a mother character in it was not abusive but had some bad behaviors. the OP realizes, "her behavior seems familiar... almost like how my mom was. i wonder if my mom would see it like I do", that's its own thing. but OP seems overly focused on TRYING to find this elusive character so that s/he can MAKE their mother watch it and magically make up for all the 32 years the OP has apparently been focused on this.

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep.