[ SECRET POST #2492 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2492 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Money Woes

[(Anonymous)]

If she's beating you, contact the police. Because that's not OK.

Re: Money Woes

[lynx]

I wouldn't do that to her D: It's not like she has left me bruised or anything, but whenever she's too angry, she has kind of an habit of throwing at the cause of her anger whatever she has on her hands and-- well, she doesn't miss. And I'm the cause of her anger often. It had been years since the last time she did that, but she's been way too stressed these last weeks.

I just want to go away from this house, which was the reason I was contacting my dad, but no dice.

Re: Money Woes

[(Anonymous)]

THIS. IS NOT. ACCEPTABLE.

Whether it leaves a mark doesn't matter. You have a right to not be harmed, no matter who you make angry.

Re: Money Woes

[dethtoll]

Okay, I gotta step in here and say if your mom is knocking you around that is the opposite of okay, it is not acceptable, and you have the right to not be treated like a punching bag. If she does it again, report it to someone.

Re: Money Woes

[(Anonymous)]

dude I am late as hell, but THIS IS ABUSE. It doesn't matter that she isn't leaving bruises, if you were one of my students at the school I work at, I would be LEGALLY OBLIGATED to notify CPS if I heard about this. I don't know how old you are--it sounds like you're at least in your late teens, so it might not be of any benefit to you, but if you have younger siblings, please consider calling the authorities for their sake.

Re: Money Woes

[lynx]

She has never done anything to my younger siblings o/ She knows better now, has a whole different view on education. My younger bro (now 18) never got beaten, and mom balks at the idea of ever laying a hand on my youngest sis (who is 7). But I'm the oldest, and when I was growing up she had a different mindset, and came from a culture in which this was ok.

I'm 25 now. Last time she had been physically violent with me, I was 15. While this is certainly horrible, has risen my stress levels through the ceiling, and has made this house a veritable battlefield; I'm worried about her at the same time. I don't know what the fuck is happening to my mom, what has gotten her so stressed and at the end of her rope. It's like she's regressing in time. But she only vents her anger with me. And I'm a disappointment of a daughter so I guess it's not like she lacks reasons to be angry at me all the time. It just gets so tiring.

Re: Money Woes

[(Anonymous)]

And I'm a disappointment of a daughter

woah, no, that is the abuse talking!

I'm sorry for bringing this up, but do you see the pattern here between this and the relationships you've talked about before?

you are not a disappointment

you don't deserve abuse

you don't deserve abuse

Re: Money Woes

[insanenoodlyguy]

If you won't/cant get the fuck out of the house, at least don't put up with that bullshit. Maybe eat some of that meat you keep ignoring and regain some semblance of primal instinct to NOT LET PEOPLE THROW SHIT AT YOU.

My brother seriously threw something at me once. What saved him, and I do mean literally saved him was that he missed and only broke a power socket on the wall.

I realize you are probably not going to have the same reaction in a flight or fight situation and I'm not telling you to go crazy on your mom or nothing, but bear in might the flight part. At least pick something up and use it to deflect while you GTFO. Chairs, cushions and jackets can all work well.

You can't sustain your current lifestyle on that 50. You will have to make sacrifices. walk somewhere. Therapy by phone (edit: I see this was mentioned down below) Eat something you don't normally eat, just for this month. Skip therapy (rough but possible)

GTFO of that house as soon as you can.