fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #286 ]

⌈ Secret Post #286 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Sorry it's so late! I got caught up making icons for an RP journal *dies*

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 41 secrets from Secret Submission Post #041.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 ] broken links, 0 not!fandom, [ 1 ] not!secret, 0 repeat, [ 1 ] personal attack.
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Current Secret Submission Post: here.
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27. So, let's see if I got this right. You admit that she's fun, and haven't listed anything she's done wrong as a mod, making me think that you don't really have a problem with anything she's done yet. And yet you still thought it would be a better idea to post something publicly that you knew would hurt her instead of putting in more effort and trying to talk to her or one of the other mods about it. ...since when is this acceptable behavior?

But the fact that I am commenting here must mean I'm bullying you, right? So what I say shouldn't matter.

Looks like it's starting already. I don't even know CFUD, but I DO know a BNF dogpile when I see one. . .

Disagreements from other players / reassurances from the mods that they will listen to concerns =/= BNF pileup. How can you accuse that when you don't know CFUD, so you can't identify who's a so-called BNF and who's... just other players who are disagreeing based on their expderiences?

You're right, and I'm sorry. I've just seen my fair share of pileups on the side of "who's right" even when the pileup was in favor of someone who started the drama by flaming someone else, so I'm kind of leery of anyone who starts posting en masse to scream at someone with what appears to be a legitimate complaint. I'll stay out of this from now on though. . .

I think it's just that a bunch of the CFUDers do hang around

fandomsecrets, and it's a BIG RP, so there are a bunch of people with opinions who are chiming in on it, less that there's an attack-pack en masse, if you know what I mean.

I'd consider the complaint more legitimate if they'd TRIED to talk to people about it and been rebuffed instead of deciding that this was the best place for it, myself, but maybe that's just me. :/ And totally understood, I hope you don't feel like you were being dragged into it with my reply!

I don't feel like that, and it's OK. It's my fault for butting in where my input really wasn't very informed, and I offer my apologies ^_^

And I totally get it. ^_^ Good luck on avoiding drama like this in the future.

lol millyfan

I'd have to be a BNF for that, and I certainly don't think I am. I don't even know the mod in question well, aside from a couple of chats. I just see causing unnecessary pain to someone that the poster doesn't even have a complaint about yet, other than the suspicion that she may have been picked because other people like her. I don't think that's a fair thing to do at all.

I'm sorry, then. I misunderstood the situation, and as I said in my posts to the mouse defending your actions, I can understand your point of view. I'm out of this. ^_^

No problem! I can understand the automatic dislike of piling.

^_^.

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