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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-09 03:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2503 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2503 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-11-09 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm struggling between wanting to really encourage you to grow up and that this is insanely unhealthy, while understanding that concepts and pieces of our imagination can be the only constant comforts we have even when we can't rely on people. I know in my young life (child and young teen) I also felt my Pokemon and other fictional "friends" were more a part of me than real friends, which I didn't have many of. Even today, I can sympathize. But honestly, you need to find a way to put those feelings into real people. I'm sure there's gotta be people with similar interests at your college, if not, try something new?

(Anonymous) 2013-11-10 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
Damn. No need to be so judgmental. I can think of a million more unhealthy things.

(Anonymous) 2013-11-10 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
Judgmental?

OP is an adult, and has an imaginary Pokemon friend. Who she loves more than anyone in the world. Whether we are sympathetic or not, OP does need to grow up.

(Anonymous) 2013-11-10 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
Calm down, it's not like OP is setting a place for their Lucario at the dinner table and growling at any real people who try to sit down. OP says they're really shy and have trouble making friends/being close to people, and they just never realized it until they realized they were closer with their Lucario than anyone else. Shouting "YOU NEED TO GROW UP AND MAKE REAL FRIENDS" at them isn't going to fix their problem because actively choosing a pokemon over real people isn't the problem.

(Anonymous) 2013-11-10 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
I agree. The first comment was all right, but the second comment... well, if I were the OP, my first reaction at someone telling me "you need to grow up" would be, "see, I was right, real people are scary and threatening, it's way safer to stay in my comfort zone."

(Anonymous) 2013-11-10 08:45 am (UTC)(link)
"scary and threatening"? Because they suggested the OP might need to grow up? How do any of you people survive in the real world?

(Anonymous) 2013-11-10 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Learn to read

(Anonymous) 2013-11-10 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
Lol damn OP just said that they are feeling really disconnected from people. Take a chill pill.

(Anonymous) 2013-11-10 10:28 am (UTC)(link)
Just...no! It is nowhere near unhealthy to find a source of comfort from anywhere, and clearly OP knows the Lucario isn't here in this world with them. You can have real friends and imaginary ones as long as you know they're not the same. Imaginary friends are not inherently unhealthy even if you'd like RL ones too. It does not mean you need to "grow up". Screw you.