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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-09 03:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2503 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2503 ⌋

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[personal profile] ashcat 2013-11-10 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
I agree with this whole comment. Most people who I would term 'aggressively interesting' are not someone I'd want to associate with or my friends would. That type of attention seeking behavior is a huge turn off and if it's not to someone, then they will think you don't want friends since you aren't communicating with anyone or making friends then you must not WANT to make friends in that fandom. After all you're so cool/interesting you probably already have tons of friends or whatever you're trying to portray yourself as.

Being genuine and friendly will result in a lot more friends than interesting will. Be someone that isn't a big gossip, who keeps their confidences, who can be counted up on for others and that will net you way more friends :) and make you a good person if you care about that sort of thing.

Ask people about themselves, you're already in fandom so you have a built in conversation topic! Nothing invasive or divisive, what's their favorite character, favorite scene, favorite part... why? Build conversations on these types of things and then just share your thoughts too.

Making friends online and offline are all on the same principles. If you can master it on one you can translate it into the other :)