[ SECRET POST #2504 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2504 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I am this kind of friend. I just do not do well with emotions, even with my best buddies.

Also, people get busy. They don't have to have a reason for being busy other than they cannot currently attend to your needs.

[(Anonymous)]

Listen, if you have a commitment (no matter how loose) of some kind with a friend and you get too busy to keep it, a reason would be the right thing to give. It costs nothing and keeps your friend from feeling like they're being hung out to dry. Emotions might be hard but good etiquettes sure aren't.

[(Anonymous)]

Sounds like you just don't do friendship very well either.

[(Anonymous)]

This.

It seems that people here think people has to be 24/7 available for their friends and that saying "no" is the worst thing ever.

Honestly, people have lives, they don't have to live for their friends and it's ok to say "I can't do that" or "I'm busy right now".
If they want to give long explanations, great! But it's not a must. Friends are allowed to not tell every little detail of their RL to each other.

[(Anonymous)]

No, it just seems that people here have this strange idea that you should sometimes make an effort to be there some of the time for people who also have lives, yet somehow manage to make time for you when you need them. And that if on the rare times they ask for your help, you're always too busy, maybe they're not the ones being selfish.