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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-11 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #2505 ]


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Takes two to tango

(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, both parties are to blame. But usually I see the "homewrecker" used when people are specifically blaming the woman involved in cheating and excusing the married man of any wrong doing. Like it was all this slutty homewrecker's fault, and she seduced him or something.

Are dudes also a homewrecker if it's a married woman doing the cheating?

Re: Takes two to tango

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2013-11-12 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
I rarely see it applied to a male but that's just me. *shrug*

I think it's annoying when people blame the woman by default. Here's a shocker, sometimes some men don't tell the "other women" they're married. because then they KNOW it will be over.

Like I'm all for giving blame to everyone blame is due, but don't make assumptions that the women KNEW the dude was married or had full intentions of pulling him away from his family.