[ SECRET POST #2505 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2505 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

I can totally understand that. I feel the same about the n-word, but while I personally wouldn't use it, I can understand why some black people reclaim it. So I kinda didn't see why such the fuss about a trans man using the word to describe himself. Of course, there's a lot of differences between the situations, so maybe that wasn't the best example to use.

I've heard that only trans women should only be allowed reclaim it because it is mainly used as a perjorative against them or something along those lines. I apologize if I seem to be brushing it off, I don't mean to, but I'm really naive about feminist concepts as well especially when it deals with trans* issues. The exact argument they used escapes me and it sort of went over my head.

I tend to apologize a lot and since I'm really ignorant when it such a sensitive topic, I worry that I may offend someone. I've seen a lot of people dogpiled as well, so I try to tread carefully. Thank you for being understanding.

[gondremark]

I think it's roughly the same situation with the N-word and the T-word. N-word has been reclaimed to the extent that when used within the group it's immediately known it's not an insult. T-word still has a ways to go, I don't know if it'll actually get reclaimed in the end or not, but if someone wants to try, go for it.

The T-word is used against trans women and male crossdressers much much more often than against trans men and female crossdressers, but that has more to do with popular media not seeming to know that trans men exist. We still get it flung at us on occasion (though it hasn't happened to me personally), but we're much more likely to be perceived (and thus insulted) as lesbians or gay men (it's kind of funny how you get different flavours of the gay insult depending on how well you're passing that day).

I'd say that because of this, trans women might have more of an interest in reclaiming it than trans men do (simply because they hear it so much more often), but it does apply to all of us and we're all in this together.

[(Anonymous)]

So my comparison wasn't too off the mark then. I hope that the t-word can be reclaimed to the extent that the n-word has or somewhere close to it.

Alright, since it is used much often towards trans women than trans men, I can understand a bit why trans women wouldn't want trans men to use it. However, like you said it does apply to all of you as well so I don't see too much of a problem if a trans men wanted to reclaim it and apply the word to himself.

Thank you, again. The information you've given me is really insightful and helpful. I'd ask more wuestions about trans issues but I don't want to bother you too much with my questions. I will some googling instead. Thank you so much. :3