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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-10-21 05:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #289 ]


⌈ Secret Post #289 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 07 pages, 176 secrets from Secret Submission Post #042.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 ] broken links, [ 1 2 3 ] not!secrets, [ 1 2 3 ] not!fandom, [ 1 ] personal attack.
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow, Monday, October 22nd, 2007.
Current Secret Submission Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] luzerna.livejournal.com 2007-10-21 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
You're sort of jumping to conclusions, aren't you? Asexuality is a spectrum. Some people are okay with sex but just don't want it, some are disgusted by it, some don't want to have anything to do with it (and thus are turned away from romantic relationships, seeing as where they often lead). I think there are a lot of people who identify as asexual because they aren't emotionally ready for a relationship yet, and I think that's what we're dealing with here, but this girl could just as easily be the third category.

Besides, even if she isn't truly asexual, it doesn't mean she's using it as an "excuse," because she still believes she's asexual. Maybe it'll take someone like this guy to prove her wrong.

(Anonymous) 2007-10-22 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe it'll take someone like this guy to prove her wrong.

which totally won't happen because she's too busy using asexuality as a reason to keep him pushed away instead of maybe being honest with him and saying "sorry, not interested in YOU".

[identity profile] luzerna.livejournal.com 2007-10-22 04:05 am (UTC)(link)
You're very fixated on that idea, very aggressive about it. Could it be that it happened to you? Could it be that you're the one who's using asexuality as an excuse to get out of relationships? By the way that you're going after everyone who responds to you, this is beginning to look like an old wound of yours. So, Anonymous, what have you got against asexuals?

You should also really take note that the secret poster never said he approached the girl he's talking about for a date or whatever. It seems more likely to me that she's open about it and has mentioned to him in the past without knowing that he's interested in her.