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⌈ Secret Post #2511 ⌋

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[The Hobbit]

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[The Fly 1986]

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[Slightly Damned]

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[Game Of Thrones]

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[DC Comics]

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[NCIS]

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[Roosterteeth]

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[Mass Effect]
[Art: The Shepard Siblings, by bigcman321]

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[Easy A]

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[Sleepy Hollow]

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[Sir David Attenborough]

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[New Tricks]

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[Hannibal (NBC)]

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What is a flaw or issue that you're working on?

I tend to take things too personally and feel like people are attacking me in discussions. I'm working on distancing myself and taking an objective look at discussions. It's a slow process.

Motivation, socialization, and drawing skills, and I haven't been doing too hot on either lately.

On the other hand, I'm getting better at fixing food.

"Fixing food" is what I'm working on, too! I think I'm doing pretty well. :)

Dishonesty and temper management.

Arrogance.

I sympathize with your problems OP. I tend to take people at their word by default and it sometimes causes me to take someone seriously who was telling me i was awful and calling me stupid and all this stuff, when after actually reading their argument I realized their argument was idiotic. On Reddit a feel a little sad or upset when something I say gets downvoted, wondering if it objectively means I did something bad.

It's worse when it comes to writing ,because say some reviewer will say harshly "never write that it's just plain bad" and I'll have second thoughts about writing what I want to write.

I wish I could stop doing that, or at least train myself to only take someone at their word if they provide proof/backup , are polite to me, or are someone close to me who I can trust.I just wish I could stop thinking as if everyone else knows better than me. But I'm afraid to sometimes because I worry it will make me conceited or something.

Nothing ~~because I'm rad as hell~~ because I don't care.

My growing desperation for a romantic partner - something which I've never really had. I used to be good at the whole "Who cares if I'm single? I'm awesome and I don't need a boyfriend to validate my awesomeness!" thing but in the last couple of years, it's become harder and harder to be my own cheerleader like that.

I also turned into something of a loner during that time due to a confluence of me moving, friends moving, and work stuff keeping me busy and away from home a lot. I found that my social skills - which were always perfectly adequate before - started to go down the toilet and I'm desperately trying to salvage them.

Punctuality and keeping my promises, and finishing things I start.

I'm too sensitive to criticism. I tend to care really deeply about people/issues/things. I wish I could stop caring so much.

On the other hand, I have difficulty trusting people, and tend to be emotionally closed off and avoid romantic entanglements.

I'm also a lazy perfectionist who is perpetually late for everything, and I have trouble with being assertive and standing up for myself.

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