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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-10-22 05:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #290 ]


⌈ Secret Post #290 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 141 secrets from Secret Submission Post #042.
Secrets Not Posted: 0 broken links, 0 not!secrets, 0 not!fandom.
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow, Tuesday, October 23rd, 2007.
Current Secret Submission Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: again

[identity profile] kinneas.livejournal.com 2007-10-23 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
Do you have a gun? A license? Do you understand how expensive guns are? A Glock 19, measly 9mm, is 500$. Licensing is around 50$ and requires multiple classes. Do you even know if she's 21 and LEGAL to carry a firearm? Do you know if her father and boyfriend have her under frequent supervision? Do you know ANYTHING about this girl?

No?

then .

How abou you focus your obvious rage and frustration on something OTHER than victim blaming, jackass.

Re: again

(Anonymous) 2007-10-23 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
so it's okay to tell the entire internet you're being abused, then tell them nothing of your own situation, and then tell them they can't help because they don't understand the situation, no, all you want is their sympathy and condolences but someone telling you to get off your ass and find something to solve the fucking issue is victim blaming? there are a helluva lot of ways out, she sounds like she doesn't even want to get out.

ohnoes I'm a horrible person who doesn't deserve to live

Re: again

[identity profile] kinneas.livejournal.com 2007-10-23 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
No, you just have no fucking idea what you're talking about.

I'm not going to enable you with a forum for you horseshit. Bye.

Re: again

(Anonymous) 2007-10-23 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, everyone's sympathy can go fuck itself. I won't say that I didn't appreciate a few of the comments.

But I didn't post this to get OH POOR YOUUUUU woes. I just wanted to vent. You know, that thing I can't do on my real journal.

I didn't want to put this on my journal because I didn't want people to think of me as that weak, horrible person who stays in a bad situation. I'd rather the people whose opinions matter to me think of me as being happy, even if I'm not.

But people like you just went to prove another reason why I can't post shit like this on my journal. Why I have to say these things anonymously. Because of people like you who have no fucking clue what you're talking about, and no capacity for empathy to help you along.

Re: again

(Anonymous) 2007-10-23 04:37 am (UTC)(link)
iawtc and the other anonymous comment above.

not with the op buying a gun, but i agree with there being ways to get out. i'm tired of people complaining about their abuse / drug / depression / whatever problems and doing nothing to solve them, it's like the issue is used for attention.

op has obviously researched or asked others for advice. she knows what she needs to do. now she needs to do it or shut up.

Re: again

(Anonymous) 2007-10-23 06:07 am (UTC)(link)
Just because you know what to do DOESN'T make it easy. It's obvious you've never been in any of those situations, because it's NOT that easy to do. It sounds simple to say it, but guess what, jackass?

Life isn't simple. Abuse isn't simple. There's nothing wrong with her venting on the internet. If you don't like it, don't read it. She still has her right to post it anonymously and get it off her chest, because it's clear that she really needs to. Obviously she was probably in the wrong to post where a bunch of idiot wankers like you morons could get a hold of it and make her feel like shit, but that doesn't mean you have to be an asshole about it. You don't understand. You don't know as much as you think you do, however much of a terrible blow to your obviously inflated ego it may be. So why don't you just accept that she's gotten it off her chest and move on.