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⌈ Secret Post #2514 ⌋

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Re: Should I have a baby?

[(Anonymous)]

Adoption is a very hard process which can take very many years; it's highly stressful not just emotionally but also economically. If you and your husband decide to go down that road, be prepared for a lot a lot a LOT of effort; and then be equally prepared for the fact that the child you adopt will most probably not be the age or gender you originally set out in search of.

If you decide to have biological children, you're right- you have a time issue. Bear in mind that babies are, relatively speaking, VERY quickly no longer babies. Also bear in mind that, as few years as that is, they are ALSO highly stressful and emotionally and economically draining years.

Either way, the main issue is whether you two want to have the responsibility of raising a child - and of being responsible for nurturing and supporting that child even after they stop being a child and become a teenager and a young adult.