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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-20 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2514 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2514 ⌋

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Re: Problems at/with church.

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2013-11-21 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
I know right. I remember seeing an article about it when I was young and being freaked out. I thanked my lucky stars that I was blessed with parents who had sense.

The authors are such morons.I mean really. It's classic "avoiding responsibility" "it's not MY fault they're doing it wrong." I think they should look in the Bible about what Jesus said regarding HARMING CHILDREN. Also some of the stuff I heard is in the book is well idiotic. "a baby is being manipulative by crying." NO THEY'RE BEING A FUCKING BABY BABIES CRY. IF YOU FEEL GUILTY AND THEN SMACK THEM AND SAY 'THEY"RE MANIPULATING ME' IT'S PRETTY DAMN CLEAR YOU SHOULD NEVER BE A PARENT.

How stupid do you have to be to think that a five month old infant is 'manipulating' you? The tactics in that horrible book are for people who feel the need to bully their children to have control.
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Re: Problems at/with church.

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-11-21 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
oh but apparently only severely abused children grow up to be productive members of society!!!! (they actually said things like that too)

Re: Problems at/with church.

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2013-11-21 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
*facepalm*

Urgh...that's just stupid. The stuff in this book kills children's development and brings them up in a home of fear. The shit in this book doesn't teach respect it teaches fear. But overgrown bullies can't seem to tell the difference between the two.