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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-20 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2514 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2514 ⌋

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Re: Do I need to find a boyfriend?

(Anonymous) 2013-11-21 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
Be comfortable in your own skin.

Stop feeling like you have to justify your life choices to anyone else, especially when it doesn't affect them at all.

Having a partner is a personal decision. Anyone not directly involved (anyone not your potential boyfriend) needs to butt out.

I got a lot of shit for still being single at my age (sometimes still do). After a while, I honestly just quit caring. I asked myself "Why do I want a boyfriend/husband?" and the only response I could come up with was "Because society expects it of me." I decided that wasn't a good enough reason for me. I'm still single. And I still don't care. I believe there are other things I can do in order to have a full life. This is not to say I won't ever have another boyfriend or get married from this point forward, but if/when it happens, I want it to be because I like and accept that man for who he is, and not for the approval that society will give me (and him).