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Re: op

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, yeah, if it's 30 and 26 it's no big deal and you should definitely do that!

I suppose my big worry here is that surely he would think people his age or younger would be better? I don't know, it's not like I feel old or anything, but I think that generally speaking a guy would prefer 'fresher meat', so to speak.

The thing is that maybe he does, and maybe he doesn't. Some people do feel that way (even though it's pretty stupid IMO) but it's definitely not the case for guys in general. And the thing is, I think, at the end of the day, the thing to do is to let him make that choice about what he would prefer, instead of convincing yourself about what his preferences are when you don't know what they are. Again, there's no guarantee it will work, but there's no reason not to give it a shot.

Good luck, I'm rooting for you!

op

[(Anonymous)]

I think I'm making it harder than what it is even because it's been a while for me and I feel EVEN more doubtful and insecure because of that. I feel sort of stupid tbh, but it's in my nature to overthink things to inaction...

I should probably stop censoring myself and talking to him more... I'm not making it any easier to him, because I'm also putting myself in an unavailable position most of the time (to avoid temptation, lol). It's a weird situation because this thing is making me feel like a stupid adolescent once again and I have no idea why... this age gap thing is killing my neurons.

I'm eternally grateful for your kind reply (and everyone else's)

Honestly?

[insanenoodlyguy]

Your looking for excuses now cause your scared period. .

He doesn't sound like the type to make the first move though. So this is on you. Go get some gurl!

op

[(Anonymous)]

You are so right... I was thinking about that before, that I'm starting to make excuses not to act on it.

He doesn't sound like the type to make the first move though. So this is on you. Go get some gurl!
Damn, that is indeed what I think! I MUST DO ALL THE WORK! On Monday I'll try plan A, dammit.