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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-30 03:25 pm

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⌈ Secret Post #2524 ⌋

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Re: Secret Maker

(Anonymous) 2013-12-01 07:00 am (UTC)(link)
I meant Dude in a gender neutral way.

No, therapy is not going to change your past or the dead. But it's going to help you to be okay and have the normal life you want. It's okay to not do it alone, you don't have to be Katniss. You can get some help and try hard and with time hopefully be okay.
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Re: Secret Maker

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-12-01 05:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure OP is doing this. You sound pretty condescending here. :/

Re: Secret Maker

(Anonymous) 2013-12-01 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Doesn't sound like it. Sounds like they did, but are not right now.

Re: Secret Maker

(Anonymous) 2013-12-01 06:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Unless you've experienced what the OP has, don't offer advice. You can't know. And even if you did have her experiences? Everyone is different. You sound like you're lecturing her On The Right Thing To Do.

Re: Secret Maker

(Anonymous) 2013-12-01 08:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Sigh, and you can't know my life experiences. The whole point of advice is it is advice given from one person to another. I don't really careif you think it sounds like lecturing, it's not for you. I can't be bothered fluffing up my paragraphs with needless etiquette to make my advice sound socially acceptable.

OP is in a bad place, OP I hope you can get the help you need. Enough so that little things like epilogues don't needlessly upset you and you can just enjoy it

Re: Secret Maker

(Anonymous) 2013-12-01 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
and yet a few comments down, someone else chimed in with how the op can and should do what they want to deal.

it's advice, and is it offered from someone who has experienced what the op has?

if not, they too should not offer advice. they shouldn't lecture her On The Right Thing To do.

it just happens in this case, the op was actually supporting her.

but if your comment applies to someone who doesn't know what the op is going through, it applies to all, whether they agree or not.

so, basically, GO FUCK YOURSELF.