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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-02 06:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2526 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2526 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Doctor Who]


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03.
[Disney]


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04.
[TMNT]


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05.
[Thor: The Dark World]


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06.
[As Told By Ginger]


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07.
[daughter, purity ring]


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08.
[Sleepy Hollow]


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09.
[Attack on Titan/Shingeki No Kyojin]


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10.
[The Producers]











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 053 secrets from Secret Submission Post #361.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Is having a mental disorder or no life a requirement for fandom, now?

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2013-12-03 11:56 am (UTC)(link)
I am trying and failing to embrace Tumblr - failing mostly because I still don't get it and I have little patience for Tumblr bullshit, so I end up mostly popping in once every few days and that is apparently not how you do Tumblr. There's also my general refusal to bog down my browser with add-ons, which are apparently necessary to make the damn site work in the first place which - what? -_-

So there's no possible way you could mistake them for being even remotely functional.

One of the things that boggles my mind most are kids, high school and college, who will spend hours and hours a day on Tumblr and then whine when their parents cut down their Internet access time because their grades started slipping. Please note, cut down, not cut off - these kids can still spend hours a day on Tumblr, it's just a few hours less because, y'know, school is kind of important? I get complaining about the situation, no one likes their funtimes being sliced away, but acting as if your family is oppressive and tyrannical because of that is just plain...wtf. Especially when everyone else starts to sympathize and end up effectively encouraging these kids to become total failures because of some mystical special snowflake status I have yet to understand.

And yeah, I probably should have seen this coming from this particular friend from miles away. She's friends with someone who once insisted that I must be lying about the fact my father generally gives me some spending money for school because I also do side-jobs for extra cash. Apparently, it doesn't make sense that a college student - who's previously worked two jobs at once and who expects to be living on her own in a few years - would want to start taking steps towards self-sufficiency, however small those steps may be for now. Also, the fact that my dad will ask me what I need it for if I ask for extra money is some kind of unruly obstacle meant to guilt trip me into being under his tyrannical financial thumb or something. /still doesn't get it

I told that person that I considered my life pretty easy compared seeing as, while I would like to work for my money, I don't have to yet...and then I flat out said that if she considers my life to be difficult based on what I'd said, then her life was probably easy as fuck and involved living on clouds or something and that she was going to be screwed when she hit the grown-up world.

I think I did myself good in stopping that friendship before it could start. Apparently, though, I should have kept pruning.
Edited (Coding fail) 2013-12-03 11:58 (UTC)