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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-03 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2527 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2527 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-12-04 07:02 am (UTC)(link)
No this is just some kind of fucked up and wrong, but the OP was validation for doing it.

The wording says "I don't see my daughter as a human being that I should talk to and ASK what she might like to help us do around the house because of *valid reason*, but more of an object for me to belittle to make me feel better about myself."

Obviously OP had to have done the above (or have history of it) or daughter wouldn't be bitching about doing the dishes to begin with. Most people don't seem to understand what complaining about their kids says about them.
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[personal profile] hiyami 2013-12-04 09:01 pm (UTC)(link)
1) it's OP's step-daughter, so we don't know if OP had any part in her upbringing until recently

2) I know a lot of brats who do expect to get everything for free, from society and their parents, and who will treat the slightlest request to help / contribute as a threat to their freedom.

And in the same family, I know siblings who are helpful and responsible, and other who are lazy slackers. Upbringing does not explain everything... People are individuals.

(Anonymous) 2013-12-07 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Or you know, the step-daughter is just a lazy little shit who doesn't think she should have to help out around the house at all.