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(Anonymous) 2013-12-04 04:32 pm (UTC)(link)1. Do you have a job?
2. Does your family live in a rented flat/house or do they own it?
3. Are you on good terms with your family?
4. How much money does your family have?
Especially if you live in a rented house/flat, it would be more normal to pay a part of the rent if you have some money. I also noticed that, when money is not too big of an issue, the closer you are to your parents, the less likely it is that they expect you to pay rent. You can, however choose to pay rent without them explicitely telling you to if you think "I want to make a contribution".
What I find interesting in this thread, though, is that a lot of people talk about "duties" that have to be appointed when it comes to household chores. I never understood why that is necessary. When I see dishes that need to go be cleaned, I clean them or put them in the dish washer. When there are clothes to be washed/ironed, I do it. I think it's only natural to do things that need to be done without having to be told to do it frist. You're not a hotel guest, you live there!
And yet so many people assume that if you live at home over 20, you're some sort of lazy, free-loading jerk.