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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-03 06:49 pm

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(Anonymous) 2013-12-04 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)
IDGI: do you view all forms of reciprocity in relationships as a form of commerce--or imagine that most people do?
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[personal profile] nyxelestia 2013-12-04 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the perception is the other way around - "payment" does not have to inherently mean commerce, at least for some people.

I'm just saying that for some people, terms like payment and contribution are almost completely different or have different connotations, whereas for others the differences aren't inherent, so the idea of "paying" for living in your home by doing chores is not all that strange - because it doesn't 'feel' much different than "contributing" to your home by doing chores.
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[personal profile] making_excuses 2013-12-05 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
That is how I think about it too, I might say I would pay to live at home, but it is in the sense that I will contribute to the household, either with money or doing stuff around the house (or both). My mother did not expect me to give her money when I lived there, nor did she ever tell me that I had to do something, but I still did it, because I lived there too.