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⌈ Secret Post #2530 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

I know, fantasy =/= reality, but could you trust a man you knew had a rape kink?

I wasn't going to volunteer my opinion on this, because wank, but I really could not trust a man I knew who got off on rape. I can live with it if it's a woman, but not it's not ever EVER ok in a man. I don't know why.

For added wank points, I also couldn't trust a Man who was also a Dom.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

Why not a woman?

Rape is somewhat common in lesbian circles.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

Depends on the man and our relationship. I don't think it's a big deal though. Like I said, mostly just uncomfortable because it's not my kink.

I think you probably have a bit of sexism going on. I admit that I do the same in some situations and am much more wary around men than I am around women, which is part sexist learned behavior and part common sense (statistics being that I'm more likely to be attacked or raped by a man than by a woman).

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT
sexism? for not wanting to get raped? fuck off back to 'a voice for men'

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

You have failed.

Sexism for thinking any man with a rape fantasy is bad and untrustworthy but women with rape fantasies are okay. Sexism for thinking male doms are bad but female doms are okay.

And I have no idea what a voice for men is.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

Uh no. It is sexism to say "It is okay for women to have rape fantasies cuz it isn't as bad if THEY rape someone." And shut up SJW anon. I see you.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

What about a woman who is also a Domme?

Someone being into consensual power exchange is not a reason to distrust them; someone being an abusive asshole who doesn't care about real-life consent is why you shouldn't trust them. I mean, if this is just a weird personal squick you have, that's fine, but that wasn't how this was coming across.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, you need to work on that. As if women raping is somehow less worse than a man. Okay, surrreeeeeeeee. And BDSM is all about consent.

I expect you hang out in radfem circles?

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

fuck.
you.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

So...yes.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

YOU DIDN"T ASK FOR MY CONSENT FIRST!


I NEED AN ADULT!!!!!!

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

i get it fellow nonny. it just seems really scuzzy and gross.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

I know what you mean, I think.
Male sexuality is a pretty violent and abusive animal to begin with, add into the mix a free pass to explicitly act out the violence and abuse, even in a controlled consenting environment, and it kinds seems unhealthy. Like it's just an excuse to abuse and dominate. That's not to say the same can't be true with women, but female sexuality is GENERALLY less about violence and domination.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think that's really "male sexuality" as it is a cultural idea of men in general.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

Evo-psych doesn't magically become not-bullshit when it's being used to demonize men rather than to justify MRA persecution complexes.

Re: Men with rape kinds (Themselves as the rapist)

[(Anonymous)]

Gee, I would have never guessed that was your opinion on this if you hadn't decided to volunteer it after all, based on your choices framing the question in the original post!