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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-11 11:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2535 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2535 ⌋

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Re: Confessions!

(Anonymous) 2013-12-12 06:28 am (UTC)(link)
If you're talking about a romantic relationship...the truth is that a lot of abusive relationships are mutually abusive, not one-sidedly. The abuse may be more severe on one side, or of different types, but it's not always a black-and-white situation of totally-unabused abuser vs innocent victim.

Re: Confessions!

(Anonymous) 2013-12-12 07:04 am (UTC)(link)
I am not talking about a romantic relationship but thank you, that was a good something to think about.

Re: Confessions!

(Anonymous) 2013-12-12 07:39 am (UTC)(link)
That is not an ok fiction for you to be spreading. Fuck you.

Re: Confessions!

(Anonymous) 2013-12-12 05:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't go so far as to say "a lot" of abusive relationships work that way but it's certainly fair to say that some do.

Re: Confessions!

(Anonymous) 2013-12-12 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Except it's not a "fiction" and has been the experience of some people. E.g., two perfectionists in a relationship, one demanding perfection, the other trying to give it, might reach a stalemate for 20+ years. But not without a lot of emotional manipulation on BOTH sides. When it comes to a bad relationship, unless it's absolutely, 100% completely unprovoked (and one-sided power-control-issues-related) physical abuse, BOTH persons can (and often do) tango in tandem.

Re: Confessions!

(Anonymous) 2013-12-12 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Actually...yeah, there are a lot of mutually destructive relationships out there. I wouldn't say they make up the majority of abusive relationships but there are a lot of them. Trust me, I come from a white trash family. I know what I'm talking about.