10 - You want to be used and broken? Christ, why? I've been in an abusive relationship myself and I don't know what you're exactly picturing yourself of it, but it's not romantic or fun or passionate or something grand. It breaks you, yeah, and then you can spend quite some time healing again. But if you're a masochist, please do. Have fun with the tension and aggression of an abusive relationship. I'm probably taking this too serious, but it always pisses me off when people say "I want to be broken" as if it's some kind of wonderful, romantic, awesome thing. It's NOT, and when it happens, we can see your whiny emo posts on LJ secret: "My boyfriend abused me but I still looo~oove him, I don't know what to do without him".

Oh, and if the poster of this secret is who I think it is...this certainly changes my opinion of you.