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⌈ Secret Post #2545 ⌋

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Comments

[sarillia]

I'm not defending the blog-- all I know about it is that some people hate it (and for the record, I followed the things that bothered me in the linked post to legitimate sources)-- and I assume that the arguments were not laid out very well, but I think there's room to disagree with some of what you're saying.

Like the Colbert thing. Satire is a tricky thing. There needs to be some element of mocking the beliefs that you are referring to instead of just parroting them. Sometimes even Colbert, who is generally very good at satire, seems to be going for a cheap laugh instead of mocking the way other people do it.

I'm very curious about what exactly Zooey Deschanel said too. Chances are that I would agree with you, but I'm curious.

[masu_trout]

Yeah, on further reflection, I do agree with you on the Stephen Colbert part. It boggled me somewhat because I do think is satire is some of the more obvious, OTT stuff out there, but that doesn't mean it can't still bother people.

RE Zooey Deschanel, I rehecked, and I had it slightly wrong. They actually called her body shaming instead and if was for this quote:

“Actresses have definitely gotten thinner over the course of my lifetime. Women I admired growing up- Debra Winger, Diane Keaton, Meryl Streep-were all beautiful and thin, but not too thin. There are a lot of actresses who are unhealthy-skinny-much, much too skinny. You can’t Pilates to that. I’m a very small person, and if I lost 15 pounds, I’d look like them; it’s scary. For young girls, what does that say? You need to look this way to be successful? That’s not true. You do not need to look or be anorexic to be successful in Hollywood. The range of what’s acceptable is larger than what people believe.”

Which... I dunno, ymmv, but the quote rings very true to me. The idea of hearing someone say 'the level of thin we convince young girls is default is really impossible to healthily reach' and deciding they're just body policing is, at best, an extraordinarily bad-faith move.

[sarillia]

There does come a point when it's impossible to reach a level of thinness in a healthy way, but when I think of that, I think of photos where people edit the ribs out to give the impression that you can be that thin without your bones showing.

When it comes to talking about real people, I do think we need to be careful about what we declare unhealthy. Some people really are naturally very thin and I know it gets tiring for them hear that they must have an eating disorder.

I don't think what Deschanel said is terrible. There are some very good things in there. But there are also things I do take issue with, not a lot, but enough.

Thanks for digging up the actual quote. I like to see celebrities talking about these things even when I don't agree entirely with how they go about it.