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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-21 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2545 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2545 ⌋

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Re: not a virgin

(Anonymous) 2013-12-22 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
If that's what she meant, she should have said that.

But perhaps I was being overly sensitive -- after all, I'm familiar with nyx and I should know she's constantly putting her foot in her mouth with really problematic and narrow-minded wording that has perfectly okay and innocent intentions behind it.
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Re: not a virgin

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2013-12-22 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't say that because I assumed it was a given. And I'm...not sure if your last line was a backhanded comment or just an amusing observation.

But anyway, I'll agree that for some people their first sexual experience is extremely important to them. But the idea that this somehow changes who they are as a person? That's an unhealthy thought process and a stupid concept that has been used for centuries to demonize and control women. So go ahead and memorialize first sexual encounters, because I get that it's important and the first time experiencing anything can be important. Just don't pretend the idea of virginity, the idea that having that first sexual experience changes who someone is and changes their value as a human being, is a good one.

Re: not a virgin

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2013-12-22 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
WTF? Nyx did say that. At no point did she say anything in regards to someone making a personal decision. All she talked about was the concept and definition of virginity.

Seriously show your work on how Nyx's wording was really problematic and narrow-minded.

Also ayrt was me, I keep forgetting to log in on my phone.