[ SECRET POST #2551 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2551 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Resident Evil movies]


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03. http://i43.tinypic.com/bg9zlf.gif
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04. [SPOILERS for something but idk what]



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05. [SPOILERS for Frozen]



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06. [SPOILERS for Bioshock Infinite]



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07. [WARNING for rape]

[Martin Freeman]


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08. [WARNING for rape]



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09. [WARNING for domestic abuse]















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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

SA

Getting basic information right now and even the most basic descriptions are so spot-on they're making me want to vomit. At this point I'm 100% certain this is the case she (and I, in a smaller measure) dealt with, so scratch the "good starting points" - any information you have, the more the better. Thank you so very much for your rambling, this is crucial information that we were missing and that I'm sure that will help her to recover.

AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

Sorry for getting back late! Here's a few links that might be able to help.

This is the DSM Criteria for what qualifies as someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder:

http://www.psi.uba.ar/academica/carrerasdegrado/psicologia/sitios_catedras/practicas_profesionales/610_clinica_cuadrosfront_psicosis/material/dsm.pdf

(You can find the qualifications on pages 9-10)


This is a documentary going further into the disorder:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ip-D4sExm9E


Here's a video going into "Body Language of Narcissistic and Psychopathic Abuser"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iFUuaw8Pf1M


Here's a detailed explanation on what is gaslighting, one of the narcissist's favorite techniques:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hllgfPCooYE


Here's examples of children who suffered abuse from a narcissistic parent and what warning signs they give out.

* http://www.lightshouse.org/the-narcissistic-parent.html
* http://parrishmiller.com/narcissists.html
* http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-intelligent-divorce/201303/the-narcissistic-father

And lastly, here's some information on the road to recovery from narcissistic abuse:

http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/no-contact-rule-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse-0618136

I wish you and your girlfriend well. Narcissists are very insidious people who can do a lot of psychological damage to their victims. I would recommend therapy if your girlfriend has suffered PSTD or Depression from this abuse. The right therapist would be able to promote a healthy self-esteem in due time.

Re: AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know how to thank you for this. This will help us so much. A million times thank you.

[hiyami]

Seconding all that anon said about narcissists.
I've met some, and had some good friends fall for others. They are very good at hiding, and at making people (including their victims) think that there's nothing wrong with them and the problem comes from you.