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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-05 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2560 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2560 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 052 secrets from Secret Submission Post #366.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: This pissed me off (TW: suicide)

[personal profile] caerbannog 2014-01-06 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
I hate this idea that people in support positions are somehow meant dedicate their entire being to the suicidal person and it's ridiculous. They've got their own lives, feelings, energy levels and needs. It helps no-one for secret!OP to sit around feeling bad over their brother, that's a ridiculous expectation and OP is allowed to go enjoy themself.

(This goes for you too after reading the other thread. You deserve your life and to look after yourself. D: *hugs!*)
making_excuses: (Default)

Re: This pissed me off (TW: suicide)

[personal profile] making_excuses 2014-01-06 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly!

(Ah, I wasn't looking for sympathy really, I just vented and wanted people to see the other side of the coin so to speak. I am quite fine, and my family isn't all bad, they love me and support me as much as they are able to. And for the most time I am doing well, just like everyone else on the planet.)

I hope that didn't come out as ungrateful? It is really great that you are supportive! And I am grateful for it, I just want to make sure you (all of you actually) understand that I am okay, I don't have that shitty of a life.
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: This pissed me off (TW: suicide)

[personal profile] caerbannog 2014-01-06 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
Oh I didn't think you were asking for sympathy at all, I figured it was vent + sharing your experiences on why selfcare is important. I think you sound like you've come out all right considering the situation and I'm glad things are working for you (and that your family are loving and supportive irrespective of the situations), I just couldn't find a nice way to phrase that. It still sounds horrible.

But yeah go you!

*shuffles off awkwardly*
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Re: This pissed me off (TW: suicide)

[personal profile] making_excuses 2014-01-06 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
That is good, I was worried it seemed that way by the responses I got.

I came out alright indeed, it was nothing wrong with your response at all! You are a lot better at it than I am!

We can be awkward together?