[ SECRET POST #2564 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2564 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT-no, I get the way you're using it. But I'm not sure the anon you replied to was using it that way. They seemed to think that their choice was limited to being 'the passive one' in a 'lie back and think of England' way, like if they don't enjoy someone touching them in a certain way then sex isn't for them, which is bullshit. It's sex. It's basically infinitely customizable. And it made me sad that she thinks she wouldn't enjoy sex because she'd 'have to be the "passive" partner and just try to like what someone else was doing to' her. The way you (and most people, usually including me) talk about the passive partner, they mean someone who enjoys having someone else do lots of the licking/fondling/whatever. She seemed to be using it as 'the person who has to put up with whatever their partner has in mind to do to them.' Sex should be about everyone involved enjoying themselves, and no-one should feel like they have to react a particular way to anything. You're right that she doesn't have to be 'the passive one.' But no-one should be resigned to "trying to enjoy" sex.

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AYRT

Ahhh, okay. I agree with all that! Sorry to be all "LET ME EXPLAIN A THING" about it. :)