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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-11 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2566 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2566 ⌋

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[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-01-11 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
WTF MAN?

Panic attacks are a real thing.

OP is not being a drama queen or an attention whore by having a fucking disorder and it's really awful to tell them they are. I know you're a troll and all but just...ew.

MENTAL DISORDERS ARE A THING.

If you're going to be a dick about it , go away. OP doesn't need this shit.

Edited 2014-01-11 22:15 (UTC)
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[personal profile] bringreligiontothewamwams 2014-01-11 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not obligated to be nice to anyone. OP is free to post about her problems, but I'm just as free to not be sympathetic to him.

If they'd been forced to confront this sooner they'd be better already. The OP's problem isn't that her family gave him shit about this, but that they didn't give her a hard enough time and force him to face up to the disruption they were causing earlier.

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[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-01-11 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
It sounds like OP's family was telling them "shut up about it" because it's inconvenient.

OP is having problems with a disorder beyond their control and not "being a drama queen" .Yes they should deal with the problem but they need support to do that. It's fucking selfish to look at your kid who's having a panic attack and say "stop being such a drama queen".

I have an actual (diagnosed) anxiety disorder. Known to you as OCD. I had it since I was a child. and let me tell you having any kind of panic disorder as a child is HELL.Not only do you have scared feelings for seemingly no reason but you feel guilt about it.

My parents probably didn't know what to do when I started having panic fits at the age of 9. But you know what? They learned. They got books to understand more about the disorder and helped me deal with it and taught me that it wasn't my fault I had these feelings . They gave me SUPPORT. Yeah my tics and worries made them uncomfortable but they understood that I was equally uncomfortable. Their support is part of what helped me get better.

People with mental disorders need support from their families. They don't need to be told that they're just being "drama queens" and it's downright shitty of you to say that.
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[personal profile] bringreligiontothewamwams 2014-01-11 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Announcing it on the internet for all sundry is a pretty drama queen-ish thing to do. I do have to ask you though; did you turn the light off in the bedroom and is the cutlery drawer left open?