[ SECRET POST #2571 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2571 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Revenge]


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[Vatta's War - Trading in Danger]


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[Dirty Rotten Scoundrels]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Sherlock]


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[Mass Effect]


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[Sleepy Hollow]


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[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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12. [repeat]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 022 secrets from Secret Submission Post #367.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Just curious, but can I ask why, specifically?

[(Anonymous)]

OP, I'm late to the party but try to explain. This would be in the case of an entirely hypothetical relationship of course.

I do not like children or want any, and while I think being a good father is a good quality in general, it's not the sort of man compatible to me. I would never date a man who has (or can't live without having) kids. In fact, te reason why one of my best friends and I didn't become "more" is the kids issue.

In case of Ichabod, it's two-fold: obviously I'd be scared the child would show up sooner or later, which would lead to a relationship dynamic I don't want. I.e., a third party who is stranger to you, but has all the affections of your partner. Rightfully, a good father makes his kids come first. But I do not want a partner who makes someone else come first over me.

Even if the child would "stay dead", then you have the issue of being with a mourning father.They would have a deep sadness I could never understand, that would put me on a whole different level from them. I mean, I understand loss, but I'll never be ble to understand love for or loss of a child (which I imagine to be horrible, but can't connect to at all).

If that makes sense.

Re: Just curious, but can I ask why, specifically?

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Well, thanks for explaining. In the context of a real relationship, that makes sense, and in the context of an imagined relationship, you realize it's irrational, but you can't help how you feel. I get it.