[ SECRET POST #2580 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2580 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Irritating misinterpretations of characters in fandom and/or adaptations

[(Anonymous)]

Yup. And as a child of a functioning alcoholic can I say that I am just really fed up with alcoholic = out of control abusive parent? Alcoholism comes in many forms (as does abuse) and I think it's just lazy writing to go for the stereotype abuser.

Re: Irritating misinterpretations of characters in fandom and/or adaptations

[(Anonymous)]

DA--wow, you put it into words. The problem with disputing the whole alcoholic parent=stereotypically abusive parent thing is that I'm never sure if any particular fic writer is writing what they know, or as a form of therapy, or both. Just because my alcoholic parents didn't beat the crap out of me doesn't mean random fic writer's parent didn't, you know? Same thing with drugs. Both my parents were various kinds of addict, and my mom hit me once (for slapping her in the face) and my dad picked me up and slammed me against the kitchen counter because I wouldn't eat my dinner a couple of times, but he wasn't any kind of addict at the time, just a controlling asshole. He actually got less abusive when he started drinking and doing drugs. Neither of them ever did worse than that and I wasn't screamed at or threatened. The worst thing the surviving one does is forget to pay the bills because their memory's shot. But I tend to just scroll on past the dramatic 'I was beaten within an inch of my life every day' fanfic, because maybe it's someone else's coping mechanism, but lots of times I don't see it fitting the characters.