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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-28 06:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #2583 ]


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Re: what to do about friends being creeps?

(Anonymous) 2014-01-29 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
thanks... and yeah, i think it's telling that there's at least one thing i don't want to tell him, not out of anxiety, but because i don't trust him with the information. (specifically, i don't trust him not to use it to manipulate me.)

i've graduated from college (somehow i managed to do so without making any lasting friends), but i have been thinking about joining a chorus for a while now. and maybe a support group (for an unrelated issue) too. maybe i can make some new friends that way. or maybe i can even try to get back in touch with some of my sort-of-friends from college? hm.

thanks for this comment. i'm kind of feeling a little more positive now, at least about my own situation. and i think i will still try to talk to my friend, but... i know that all i can do is talk to him. i can't make him change. and if he doesn't change, he's probably not the sort of person i want to be friends with.

the only thing is that i don't think it'll be so simple to cut myself off from him even if i want to. he's pretty clingy and persistent. which was useful for me when i was too scared to contact anyone but he still always kept in touch with me. but it's also part of his problem.