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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-29 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2584 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2584 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Danball Senki Wars]


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02.
[Harry Potter]


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03.
[Burn Notice]


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04.
[The Island of Doctor Moreau]


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05.
[Papers, Please]


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06.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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07.
[Pretty Little Liars]


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08.
[KILL LA KILL]


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09.
[Labyrinth, The Hobbit]

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10.
[The Hobbit]


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11.
[The Hobbit]


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12.
[The Kiss of the Spider Woman]














Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 029 secrets from Secret Submission Post #369.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: OP

[personal profile] comma_chameleon 2014-01-30 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
Obviously talking to a stranger about your problems is daunting and not nearly as helpful as talking to a friend, but for your sake and hers, having someone else to talk to is better than no one else.

Agreed. OP, you might not want to sound hard hearted or cruel to a friend (and I understand that), but sometimes you (and I mean a general you) are just not capable or able to deal with the magnitude of a friend's problems and it's okay to say something like, "I'm your friend and I care for you, but I really don't think that these problems are something I can help you with, have you thought about talking to a professional?" or something of that ilk.

Especially if someone else's problems are causing you mental or physical stress, you have to draw a line. At the risk of sounding cruel, sometimes you do have to think about yourself first, even if you want to help your friend.