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⌈ Secret Post #2586 ⌋

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04. http://i.imgur.com/e147T3b.jpg
[linked for porny, RL people]

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05. http://i.imgur.com/Dfsphg7.jpg
[Sherilyn Fenn, Twin Peaks; also linked for sort of porny (at OP's request), RL person]

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08. [SPOILERS for Sherlock]

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11. [WARNING for eating disorders]

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12. [WARNING for eating disorders]

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13. [WARNING for underage]

[Final Fantasy XII]

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14. [WARNING for sexual abuse]

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15. [WARNING for racism]

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However valid it is or is not as an orientation, I think I'm the opposite. The more I get to know someone, the less sexually attractive I find them. It's been happening for 30 years, in every relationship and fling I've ever had. I'm starting to wonder if I have serious intimacy issues, or something.

Before I forget and someone tells me this is just the "loss of spark," it's also happened with people I never had relationships with but found sexually attractive when I met them. There's...really no rhyme or reason for it.

Yeah, I would guess you have either intimacy or commitment issues.

I have a similar thing to you, OP.

tbh for me it's just trust issues. also, when you get to know someone, you become more aware of their flaws.

This also happens to me. Worse, it happens to me when I'm in a relationship with someone I hadn't known previously and the person starts getting even the least bit ...coupley (even the most innocuous things, like calling me babe or trying to hang out with me all the time).

Most of the time when I try to date someone I want out about two days into it. I just can't handle it and I start hating everything about them.

I'm probably just not meant to date people.

In a psychological study I once read, someone said 'sex is much too intimate for a permanent relationship.'

That's pretty much exactly how I feel about it.

Ha I'm kinda the same. How much I'm attracted to someone is inversely proportional^* to how much I like them. Don't quite get it, and maybe there's issues there, but I'm okay with it. I'm "seeing" a friend at the moment, but I would never consider them a good, much less close, friend.

^*Except when it hits the negative feelings about them, like annoyance or hate. It's a bit of a special case that one.

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