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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-05 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2591 ]


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[personal profile] nyxelestia 2014-02-06 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Isn't that the point of baby-sitters, to take care of young'uns you can't or do not want to watch for a bit? And seriously, how much stockpiling would you need to do for a 2-3 hour movie?
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[personal profile] comma_chameleon 2014-02-06 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
Or *GASP* one bottle of formula if the baby can't go that 2-3 hours without eating.

Contrary to what breast milk fanatics will tell you, formula is not fucking arsenic.

As someone who was allergic to breast milk and was raised on formula, I think I turned out pretty A-Okay. Not saying you shouldn't try and breastfeed if you can (it's beneficial and a good bonding experience too), but one bottle feeding isn't going to kill the kid (and if Dad isn't going to the movie, he can do the feeding, making it a bonding experience for him and baby too.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-06 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
Hey you dickhead, many babies reject bottles at first. So you have to feed them bottles at some frequency. Unfortunately, many babies start to reject the nipple when they can get the bottle. So you have to be really really sure you want to supplement, and it turns out it isn't easy to do it casually for a lot of babies. Breastfeeding isn't easy for a bunch of people.

You see what I mean? You're fucking ignorant and I'm tired of the judgements.

Also, not everyone has a fucking Dad.
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[personal profile] comma_chameleon 2014-02-06 11:44 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not judging then for breastfeeding, I'm judging them for taking a week old baby to see a movie when it's not THAT important.

Also, OP mentioned a husband, so presumable this kid has a dad.

And yes, some kids don't take to bottles, and yes some kids don't latch properly to breastfeeding. There's no right or wrong way to feed a kid as long as they're getting proper nutrition.

But thanks for being an asshole and calling me names right out the gate for no reason.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-02-06 11:53 am (UTC)(link)
holy shit you're being a dick.

what on earth did comma_chameleon say that was so offensive? I just saw them pointing out that not all moms/babies can breastfeed which is true. Nothing was judging moms who do breastfeed.

and this is coming from someone who thinks breastfeeding is the best option whenever possible - it just isn't always possible for both mom and kid.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-06 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
So...who's being ignorant and judgmental, person who's calling someone a dickhead for saying that not everyone has to or can breastfeed? Are you reeeeally sure it's not you?
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[personal profile] nyxelestia 2014-02-06 10:57 am (UTC)(link)
I never understood attachment parenting beyond it being some serious separation anxiety on behalf of the participating parents. Like, seriously, your kid will be fine without you for a few hours, give yourself and them a break.