ext_82219 ([identity profile] shahni.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-11-06 12:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #305 ]


⌈ Secret Post #305 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

1.


__________________________________________________



2.
__________________________________________________



3.
__________________________________________________



4.
__________________________________________________



5.
__________________________________________________



6.
__________________________________________________



7.
__________________________________________________



8.
__________________________________________________



9.
__________________________________________________



10.
__________________________________________________



11.
__________________________________________________



12.
__________________________________________________



13.
__________________________________________________



14.
__________________________________________________



15.
__________________________________________________



16.
__________________________________________________



17.
__________________________________________________



18.
__________________________________________________



19.
__________________________________________________



20.
__________________________________________________



21.
__________________________________________________



22.
__________________________________________________



23.
__________________________________________________



24.
__________________________________________________



25.
__________________________________________________



26.
__________________________________________________



27.
__________________________________________________



28.
__________________________________________________



29.
__________________________________________________



30.
__________________________________________________



31.
__________________________________________________



32.
__________________________________________________



33.
__________________________________________________



34.
__________________________________________________



35. [ not fandom ]
__________________________________________________





Notes:

- First Comment IS (... come on fandomsecreters, you know your mod is in class and not really here posting this, please do that wonderful thing you do? ) name that fandom~!
- And 4? ♥ :3

Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 109 secrets from Secret Submission Post #044.
Secrets Not Posted: 0 broken links, 0 not!secrets, [1] not!fandom (but very nicely made!).
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow,Wednesday, November 6th, 2007.
Current Secret Submission Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

16 & 32

[identity profile] vector-nyu.livejournal.com 2007-11-07 06:33 am (UTC)(link)
16--I'm not a big RP'er, but I did fall in love with someone I met on LJ. For me it was 100% the real thing, even if I feel really silly about it now--since it didn't work out at all.
When I see these secrets I feel really worried for these people, that they are really in love, just like I was, and that it won't work out, and that they'll be as horribly heart broken as I was and that they'll ruin a great freindship.
The problem is, not that many people are actually homosexuals statistically. I don't think most of these girls (and yes I'm making the asumption of most of fandom being female) aren't really lesbians, and online gender becomes uniportant and it's all an emotional connection, but when they finally meet or actually think about what a homosexual relationship actually means, it will all fall apart.
But maybe I'm just jaded and pessimistic.

32--GET BETTER FRIENDS
Real friends aren't judgemental. You should find people that like and support you even if your opinions differ. One of my best friends is totally against gay marriage and Iesbian, yet we like and respect each other enough to not let our differences make us dislike each other.
Or maybe you should just have more faith in them--try being honest with them and see what happens. Maybe they won't hate you and you're worrying for naught.

Re: 16

[identity profile] cftf.livejournal.com 2007-11-07 07:01 am (UTC)(link)
No, I agree with you on a lot of that. I used to do the whole e-dating thing especially when I was younger, and... it never ended well XD; Well, I can't say never, but the enduring friendship I have now was BECAUSE we were all "yeah, this... isn't going to work."

As a guy I don't feel entirely qualified to comment on the second part, though I agree with it in spirit and theory. And that I, too, am likely jaded and pessimistic. :P