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masturbating on cam, which isn't quite the same a physically having sex but is still cheating in his eyes

That's... really not cheating. Your SO is a bit of an asshole if you ask me.

That's pretty subjective. I don't know if I would feel comfortable with my partner doing that, and if they did it behind my back I'd be pretty hurt. In any case, it sounds like for the anon you're responding to, that's in the past and they've worked it out. Let's not start giving unsolicited relationship advice to people who are just helping out the OP based on their own experiences.

... it sounds like cheating to me...

A girl who is being sexually ignored by her partner masturbating is cheating? Ok, there was someone on the other end of an internet connection who was watching, but they were not really involved in the experience other than as an external stimulus to help her achieve completion. That's no more cheating than masturbating to porn, or fanfic.

How do you that anon is a girl? Would your opinion be different if he was a man? Just wondering.

... Holly shit, you're right. There is literally nothing in the OP to suggest they're girl or boy. Shit wonder why I jumped to that conclusion?

Probably because you tend to think most people in fandom are female until it's stated otherwise. I do that too.

It really depends on the space for me, but I assume everyone on f!s is female until proven other.

Because there is a level of intimacy of sharing this sexual act with another person that you wouldn't have if they were doing solo masturbation.

Gotta agree with noodly, here. Two live people getting off to each other is completely different from one person engaging with static media.

Let me put it this way: if the anon in question had met up with the other person and they had masturbated to one another, then would you still see nothing wrong with it?

a person being sexually ignored in a sexual relationship needs to decide if the relationship is worth it or not. it sucks, but cheating is cheating.

SA

Personally, I don't really see it as cheating, but he does. So, rather than argue semantics, I realized that he was hurt and felt betrayed and we worked through it.

Well done, non. You're more understanding than I would be. You must really care about him. Hope he understands what a lucky fucker he is.

None of my business, but I am curious to know: Is he still... you know... withholding the D?

SA

Lol, no. I don't get sex as much as I like and I never have, but that's because he has a low libido work makes him especially tired and stressed, which doesn't help. But, he gives me D and the fingers when he can and it's good.

Sorry, very invasive question. tots inappropriate, sorry.

Hell, as long as you're happy.

So, if you were doing something that hurt your partner, then you'd only stop doing it if YOU decided that it was worth being upset about?

And you think the anon's SO is the asshole?

I'd be pretty pissed off if my SO was masturbating on cam for someone else. I'd definitely consider it cheating.

wasn't going to comment on this thread but

sorry, anon, that is 100% cheating

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