I usually end up losing touch with people because I get sick of being the one to always make the first contact. If I suggest a date to hang out and they never respond, then that's it. I will try to schedule things with you several times but if you don't want to hang out with me or make solid plans, that's fine.

I'm sort of in the middle of not speaking to who was once my best friend. He and I were incredibly close but then he got a girlfriend and he suddenly no longer called me and I just gave up on trying to call him. He'll come over my house occasionally to hang out with my sister but in the last year we've spoken maybe 4 times. It's taken a lot to get to this point and I've made my peace with it.