[ SECRET POST #2597 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2597 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Burning bridges?

[shortysc22]

I usually end up losing touch with people because I get sick of being the one to always make the first contact. If I suggest a date to hang out and they never respond, then that's it. I will try to schedule things with you several times but if you don't want to hang out with me or make solid plans, that's fine.

I'm sort of in the middle of not speaking to who was once my best friend. He and I were incredibly close but then he got a girlfriend and he suddenly no longer called me and I just gave up on trying to call him. He'll come over my house occasionally to hang out with my sister but in the last year we've spoken maybe 4 times. It's taken a lot to get to this point and I've made my peace with it.

Re: Burning bridges?

[sarillia]

I hate having to be the one to initiate contact too. I have a friend who listened to me when I talked to her about it and has been making an effort to make things more equal and I love her for it (among other things, obviously). I'm drifting away from others where I've had the same problem, though I still try to contact them occasionally.

Re: Burning bridges?

[shortysc22]

there are certain friends where I understand, my one friend works 6AM-6PM so she's exhausted by the end of the week and planning a wedding, LEGITIMATE! But when I see others posting the stuff they do on facebook all the time but you can't be bothered to respond to a text? Sorry, I don't need that shit anymore.

Re: Burning bridges?

[fingalsanteater]

Fucking this. This is why I don't even bother anymore.

Re: Burning bridges?

[(Anonymous)]

I feel you on that. I dropped my best friend as well because of basically the same thing. If I can be married and make time for you, you sure as hell can spare some time away from your boyfriend to make time for me,

Re: Burning bridges?

[shortysc22]

Exactly. I managed to work full time, go to grad school and hang out with you. But I will give him credit, even though we didn't speak for months, he still texted me on my birthday.

Another friend of mine actually got better about talking to me after she got married and I'm forever grateful for that.

Re: Burning bridges?

[(Anonymous)]

I'm glad that even though you had to drop one friend, another friendship got even stronger! That's always awesome.

Re: Burning bridges?

[(Anonymous)]

Same. Friendships are supposed to be equal, not one-sided. If I'm always the one putting in all the effort, I'm just going to assume that you don't care about it as much as I do, so why should I bother?