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⌈ Secret Post #2597 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Burning bridges?

[(Anonymous)]

One of the only times I've cut off contact with someone was when I felt we had an unhealthy friendship and that there was no way to salvage it - which was combined with a realisation that my friend wasn't going to stop doing the things they did that pissed me off anytime soon. A big fight was the tipping point for all of this.

So I guess my limit is whether I see the friendship is salvageable/ worth salvaging, and if the other person is willing to change their behaviour. If you want to continue being friends with this person, I'd say you should definitely have a talk with them about whatever they're doing, explain why you don't like it, and see how they react. But if you don't really care that much, I don't think there's anything wrong with deciding to drift away from the friendship.

This all depends on what your friend is actually doing of course. It's possible you're the person being unreasonable in this.

Re: Burning bridges?

[(Anonymous)]

Yep, this. The tipping point for me was when she finally contacted me after refusing to speak to me for almost a month after saying some astonishingly hurtful things to me because I dared to call her on her shit, and then, when she finally did start talking to me again, didn't offer an apology or an explanation, just "I've decided to forgive you". That was when I knew that there was no hope that she'd ever even consider that she might be in the wrong, let alone that her behaviour might be hurting the people she claimed to care about, and there was no way in hell she'd ever consider changing her behaviour. (Also, that no matter what she said, she didn't give a flying fuck about me beyond my willingness to be her doormat, but hey, it's not like I'm bitter or anything.)

Don't let it get to that point, OP.