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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-11 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2597 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2597 ⌋

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Re: Burning bridges?

(Anonymous) 2014-02-12 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
If they continue to keep doing the thing that makes you uncomfortable even if you've talked to them about it, then it may be time to cut ties.

I've cut off two friendships in the past 4-5 years. One of them was really unhealthy, bordering on the side of toxic, and at one point, I had enough. They eventually apologized for their behavior, but the thing that they did that had me at my breaking point was just so vile that I couldn't forgive them for it.

The second one had to do with boyfriend drama and how they were blowing me off for their boyfriend, but they also said some mean, spiteful and shitty things that no one should say to their best friend, ever. And when I told them that they really hurt me with their words, they decided to act like a child and ignore me in hopes of forcing me to apologize to them instead. I wasn't about to be emotionally manipulated again after the shit I went through in the first friendship, so I cut them off as well.

It really depends on the situation and the severity of things, but if you feel like you're being borderline abused, it might be time to say goodbye.