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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-11 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2597 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2597 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-02-12 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
I hope the same for you. You seem to be lacking in compassion and the ability to understand the feelings and often profound hurt of others. These types of issues have led to extreme depression and suicide. If this is just some intellectual exercise to you I find it disturbing in its' coldness and ultimate brutality towards others.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-12 04:37 am (UTC)(link)
For someone who claims to not like bullying, you appear to be a bit of a bully yourself. You are making awful assumptions about people and turning them into monsters for simply daring to disagree with you.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-12 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
What I am doing is bemoaning the lack of caring I am seeing here. It saddens me greatly and I am sincere in my hope that you and others like you will someday understand the depths of feeling that you seek to trivialize. I shake my head at the lack of empathy and feel a bit hopeless at the casual dismissal of what can be psyche shattering experiences for some of us. I can't help but make assumptions when I see what you and perhaps others have written in these responses. The world is cruel I suppose, sometimes it's very hard to live in it and conversations like this only reinforce my perceptions. You try living in a body that others revile and see how you fare.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-12 06:27 am (UTC)(link)
And ow do you know that no one who has replied to you has had a psyche-shattering experience?

When I was in eighth grade, there was a girl who decided to make my life a living hell. She spread rumors and enlisted the help of a number of her friends to bully me. I became an outcast. I received death threats. My parents had to call the police because people kept calling the house to harass me. I was pushed and punched in the hallways and shoved into lockers. I ate under the stairwell at lunch. And the school administration would not believe me when I told them what was going on. Their response to me being beat upon was to ask the students who beat me whether they had done it and to take their word for it when they said, "oh no, we didn't do that!" It took my arm being slashed for them to finally take notice (and this was after nearly an entire school year of maltreatment).

Rather than try to understand where someone who disagrees with you might be coming from, you instead choose to dehumanize them. That is lacking empathy.

I'm sorry that you've had such bad experiences during your life, but that does not make what you are doing here okay. You cannot make assumptions about what others may or may not have gone through or what others may or may not feel, and you of all people should know that.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-12 06:43 am (UTC)(link)
Get off your high horse.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-12 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
God, what a bunch of insufferable jerks populate this site.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-12 05:13 pm (UTC)(link)
That's fandom as a whole in a nutshell. I haven't met anyone in any fandom who wasn't an insufferable jerk in some way. Including myself.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-13 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
Like you, do you mean?

I don't think it's insignificant that you ignored the comment pleading for understanding in favor of the one that went for pith. You sought out the avenue that would make it most acceptable for you to degrade the Other.

You are what you hate, anon.