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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-14 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POSt #2600 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2600 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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08. [WARNING for rape]



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10. [WARNING for RL death]



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[Lilo and Stitch]


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12. [WARNING for rape, non-con]



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13. [WARNING for rape]

[Panic! at the Disco]


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[Silent Hill]


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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: Advice?

(Anonymous) 2014-02-15 05:16 am (UTC)(link)
"Family guilt is a hell of a thing" is an excuse, though. It's something your family has convinced you to believe so that you don't think you have any choices, but you do. You can say no. Things might be awkward if you do, but you know what? Things are already awkward, because your family wants you to lose a week's wages and spend it packed like sardines in a small cabin. Either way, you're... well, not winning. You can choose to not-win and stay home and earn money.

Giving in seems easier in the short run, but it only makes things harder for you longterm. Your family gets used to manipulating you via guilt, it gets harder to fight it, and the protest from them will be more vehement because you've always given in. You said you're an adult. You can choose to exercise an adult's ability to decide what they want to do for their vacation.