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⌈ Secret Post #2601 ⌋

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Huh. I was under the impression that fandom sex was generally not that realistic? But I have not had sex nor have I read very much smut so I really would not know. I guess it's more helpful/accurate than I though.

It isn't realistic, but that doesn't mean there aren't any good ideas. A lot of the smaller aspects, rather than the broader/more popular tropes, are useful. Perhaps more importantly, though, if you read a lot of smut at a younger age without much additional context/information, fanfic is really good about both kicking off sex research and guiding it, which is also a big contributor.

It's more that fanfiction sex is highly idealized, for the most part. No, not every sexual encounter is going to end in mindblowing orgasms for all. And not every position you try is going to work, due to logistics like height differences, flexibility, genital positioning/shape, etc. so on and so forth.

But when you combine a decent smut writer with personal research, it can actually give someone a decent blueprint. (Like I would never have known about prostate stimulation if not for fic, since I don't have one. Let's just say, the guys I've used that knowledge on have been grateful for my research. ;) )

Yes, I absolutely meant it; no, not all fic is realistic, no my experience wasn't absolutely PERFECT, but yes, it was amazing and awesome because I could apply things I'd read about and things I probably wouldn't have thought of trying if I hadn't read and researched and fantasized about them so much. So, yes, absolutely sincerely, thanks to all the slash writers

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Re: I think it's real, but I'm probably biased.

Re: I think it's real, but I'm probably biased.

Re: I think it's real, but I'm probably biased.

OP here: Yes, I was sincere :)