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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-20 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2606 ]


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Re: Presumptions about relationships and their "purpose" really piss me off.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-21 05:20 am (UTC)(link)
Yep, this. Your mother might be wrong to say the relationship isn't going anywhere because it isn't conspicuously leading to marriage, but she's mainly wrong about the "because". The relationship isn't going places because one of the people in it is incredibly immature and throws tantrums when his girlfriend "leads him on" about BOARD GAMES.

Chard's right. Yes, this was a stupid fight, but treating it like an isolated incident that doesn't have a troubling issue (the BF's immaturity and hang-ups about board games = infidelity) at the root of it is... well, "wishful thinking" is the kindest way I can describe it.

Saying, "But I'm immature too!" isn't a good excuse. Your faults are your faults, and you know if it's something you need to work on. It doesn't mean your boyfriend gets a free pass for all his faults. You're not perfect, but you deserve better than some dude who goes haywire at you because you dared to have fun with somebody else. I hope you realize that, OP.